Skip to main content

What happens when lust turns into obsession | the dark side of...|


 













      what happens when lust morphs into something more dangerous like Obsession understanding The Tipping Point from lust to Obsession involves looking at how these feelings affect your thoughts behaviors and emotions understanding the difference lust is rooted in biology it's the immediate spark that triggers a release of dopamine giving you that high when you're around someone attractive it's typically short-lived fading as you spend more time with the person and develop or don't develop emotional intimacy but that desire can take a dark turn if it becomes all consuming and starts impacting your life negatively Obsession often involves limerance therapist Eliza bin defines limerance as an intense emotional attachment characterized by intrusive thoughts about someone a desire for reciprocation and difficulty focusing on anything else unlike lust which Fades naturally limerance can last for months or Ren years often causing distress Obsession can be fueled by psychological factors like attachment style self-esteem issues or previous trauma according to relationship coach Julie Nan people with anxious attachment styles are more likely to cling to the feeling of lust becoming fixated on the idea of being loved or validated by someone else signs lust has turned into a Obsession number one neglecting responsibilities are you skipping work ignoring friends or letting your health slide because you're consumed by thoughts of them when lust crosses into Obsession it begins to impact your daily life and well-being number two unrealistic fantasies thoughts of them begin to dominate your day and interfere with your ability to focus on other areas of life you might idealize the person creating unrealistic expectations or imagining a relationship that doesn't exist this can set you up for disappointment and Pain Three emotional dependency if you start to feel like your happiness depends solely on their attention or approval your attachment might be moving into unhealthy territory lust is enjoyable but Obsession creates emotional instability leading to anxiety and fear of rejection four romanticizing rejection when lust turns into Obsession rejection doesn't deter you it may even intensify your feelings this is because your mind starts to see rejection as a challenge to overcome rather than a sign to move on you may tell yourself well they're just playing hard to get or if I keep trying they'll realize they love me too not realizing in you're already disrespecting their boundaries five dehumanizing that person Obsession often leads to seeing the person as an object of Desire rather than a real individual with flaws emotions and autonomy lust that becomes obsessive strips away the real person replacing them with an idealized figure designed to fulfill your own unmet needs number six jealousy without justification when lust becomes Obsession it may lead to a heightened irrational sense of jealousy you might find yourself obsessively wondering who they're with or what they're doing or whether someone else has their attention even if you have no legitimate claim to exclusivity this misplaced jealousy often stems from a sense of entitlement over the person's time and affection which is a sign that your feelings are no longer about mutual attraction but control and number seven projection of personal insecurities sometimes obsession is less about the person you're fixated on and more about you lust can morph into Obsession when your own insecurities drive you to focus intensely on someone else you may fear being alone question your own self-worth or feel anxious about the future by fixating on the object of your desire you're essentially using them to fill an emotional void recognizing the signs that lust is turning into Obsession and addressing the underlying causes will help you nurture genuine connections rather than chasing an unhealthy fixation Obsession often stems from unmet emotional needs or deeper insecurities by addressing these root issues you can cultivate healthier more balanced relationships so did this article emotionally resonate with you have you ever felt an obsessive desire for someone if you're comfortable share your thoughts in the comments down below.



Thank you....


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Reality of pahalgam attack | who is failing india? |

  Hello, everyone! In the Basara valley of Pahalgam,known as India's mini Switzerland, this tourist spot witnessed a horrific terrorist attack So horrible that it shook our country to its core. According to the information we have so far, at least 26 people have lost their lives in this terrorist attack. 17 people are injured. The 26 who died were males. This high altitude location, can be reached either by hiking or on a mule. So for the rescue operations, helicopters had to be used. While locals, used mules to bring back the injured people back. At least 12 tourists were admitted to the Pahalgam Hospital. And the doctors said that all 12 of them are now in a stable condition. In this terrorist attack, people were targeted based on their religion. One of the victims was a Muslim, Syed Adil Hussain Shah, a Pahalgam local, he worked as a mule handler. One was a Christian. And the remaining 24 victims were all Hindus. They were tourists from different places. Like 32-year-old Neeraj...
Post a Comment
Read more

Mystery of time travel? | Time traveler from year 2256 | science behind the mystery |

  Hello everyone.....       In March 2003 , the FBI arrested 44-year-old Andrew Carlssin. Newspapers reported that this man was extraordinarily lucky. In the history of Stock Markets , he had earned like no other. He invested $800 and within 2 weeks , it turned into $350 million . The FBI suspected that he was running a scam. That he was an insider trader. When Andrew was questioned, he answered that he was a time traveller . He claimed that he was a traveller from 250 years in the future. And that he knew how the stocks would perform so he invested in them. And got the extraordinary result. The FBI was surprised at this. The FBI was convinced that he was lying. And they took it upon themselves to prove that he was lying. When they investigated some more, they found that Before December 2002 , there was no record of Carlssin. Even more surprising was that on 3rd April, Carlssin had to appear in court for his bail hearing, but he had disappeared, never to be found ...
Post a Comment
Read more

The lawrence bishnoi case? | Gangs of north india! |

  Hello everyone.....      To save the lives of wild animals like a blackbuck, how passionate can a person be?       You will be surprised to know this. This is the story of a young man, who lived in a district where blackbucks were dying every month. He used to get angry and sad at this. But he didn't know what to do. When this boy was in college, he attended a conference by the Bishnoi community about the loss of forests and wildlife. This was when the meaning of life changed for this young man. After completing his studies, he returned to his village and decided to save the blackbucks. But the problem was how could a 20-year-old boy stand up against the hunters?       He asked the villagers to alert him if they come to know about a hunt. Once, a villager told him as much. That a hunt was about to take place. It was a cold winter night, the temperature was around 14°C. But still, this young man rode his motorcy...
Post a Comment
Read more